This picture of the Merithew home was taken in 1903.
Grace is the older of the two children. Her mother , Annis (Haynes) Merithew is in the apron. I believe that's her grandmother Anna (Cooley) Cary wearing the hat.
Her father, Edward is behind Annis and her uncle Hiram (a single man who lived in the home as part of the family) MERITHEW holds the horse-I think.
These pictures of the Crossman/Merithew relatives were donated by Torrey Crossman, Dec. 2018.